We stood in the hallway and held on to each other.
We were wounded by what we had discovered. There is no version of finding out something like this that doesn’t leave a mark. The grief of it is complicated — not just the loss of parents they thought they had already mourned, but the discovery that the mourning had been for people who were still alive and had chosen absence. That is a different kind of grief entirely, one that doesn’t have a simple name.
But we had gotten through hard things before. We would get through this one the same way we had gotten through the others.
Together.
That has always been what we were. Seven children and one grandmother who chose each other every single morning for ten years, before we even knew what choice we were actually making.
Some things you can only understand looking back.
We were a family. We had always been a family. And the box in the basement, for all the damage it carried, could not undo a single day of that.
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